Perhaps I used the wrong term when I said "pansexual." Hubby looked it up online yesterday and was freaked out. He thought I saw a world of sexless people, any of whom would be attractive to me. He thought I was negating his masculinity.
How wrong! I am so glad he wanted to talk about it. I explained that to me, it means not sexless but that I appreciate the masculine *and* the feminine. Perhaps simply "bisexual" is a better word after all. We both feel better now. Words have so much power, don't they?
I also explained to him that standards still apply!!! Meaning, it's not like I'm attracted to any or everyone who comes along!!! And I admitted that I'd take Angelina over Brad any day lol. Being able to say that out loud was amusing, but empowering. I had admitted to a same-sex attraction, even if it was a Hollywood star.
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